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“I Am Going to Share With You the TOP TEN Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And Exactly What You Should Do to Avoid Ever Making One of These Critical Errors…”

The following dating advice for men has been adapted with permission from:

-David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”

MISTAKE #1: Being Mr. “Nice Guy”

Has it ever come to your attention that the really beautiful women never go for the “nice” guys?

I am almost certain it has.

If you are anything like me, then I know you have had those really hot, attractive female friends who always date the “jerks”… however, no matter how hard you try, they never have a romantic interest in YOU.

So, what’s the deal, you ask?

Actually, the answer is easier to spot than what you realize…

Women don’t date men based on how “nice” a guy seems or truly is. In fact, women date a certain guy because they have a powerful, undeniable GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him.

And you know what?

Simply being the chivalrous knight in shining armor absolutely will not stir up that powerful ATTRACTION in a woman.

And being ‘Mr. Nice’ does not get you noticed (sorry, that’s just the cold hard facts).

That’s why until you realize this harsh reality, you’ll most likely NEVER succeed with the women you want to date.

MISTAKE #2: Using Your Persuasion to “Convince Her To Like You”

Here’s a question for you. How do most guys respond when they meet a woman they REALLY like…but they know she’s just not that into them?

You are correct! They spend a bunch of time trying to “convince” the woman to feel differently about them.

NEWSFLASH! You’ll never have success changing how a woman feels about her level of attraction for you.

Sorry, can’t be done….never, EVER, EVER!

Don’t even try! Stop wasting your time and energy! You cannot CONVINCE a woman to change her feelings by reasoning with her.

Take a minute to ponder that statement.

If a woman doesn’t have it “going on” for you, then what makes you think you can change that emotion with reason.

Yet, we all do it.

We beg, we plead, we get down on our knees to convince her to change her mind.

Terrible way to go about it. In fact, it won’t ever work (have I said that before…I feel like I might be repeating myself).

MISTAKE #3: Asking Her For Approval Or Permission

In our great efforts to please women (which for whatever reason we think is necessary to get them to like us), we guys end up doing crazy things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission.”

Another AWFUL idea.

Women don’t feel attraction for the suckups… EVER.

Please don’t miss my point here…

You absolutely DO NOT…nor should you ever treat a woman poorly to get them to like you.

However, if you are of the belief that treating a woman well ensures winning her approval and permission, then I urge you to rethink your position.

Your success with women will not come by looking for approval. Actually, women find men like this annoying.

Don’t believe me? Find any attractive woman out there and ask her if WUSSY GUYS who chase after her looking for approval get on her nerves. Bet you know the answer to that one.

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

Have you ever taken a woman out for really fancy dinners, showered her with flowers and gifts, only to have her REJECT you for a guy who doesn’t treat her near as well you?

If you’re anything like me, then you’ve had it happen MANY times.

Well guess what?

It’s only NATURAL when this happens…

That’s right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you communicate a very CLEAR message:

“I doubt you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection.”

Your well-thought out intentions end up coming across to women as a cover for your insecurity, and sorry attempts at manipulation. You heard me correctly, I stated that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Telling Her “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship

Another blatant and unfortunate miscue that way too many men make is sharing their feelings about the relationship too early.

Let’s face it. Beautiful women don’t come along every day.

And they get a TONS of looks and attention from men when they do.

Most men probably don’t know it, but attractive women get approached CONSTANTLY.

An attractive woman may get approached multiple times EACH DAY by longing suitors. This means dozens of men each week and hundreds each month.

And guess what?

The truly beautiful women have dated many of them.

You are CORRECT. They’re EXPERIENCED.

They know what’s coming.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates.

This sets off the alarms and tells the woman that you are no different than any other guy who ‘falls in love’ all too easily… and can’t control himself.

Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax.

I can show you a much better and easier way… Don’t Believe Me???? CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT

MISTAKE #6: Completely NOT “Understanding” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are completely and utterly opposite of men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

Learn that now and deal with it.

When a man spies a hot thing walking by, he feels this INSTANT sexual attraction.

But do women feel the same?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, spending 5 years studying this very topic, I can clue you in to the fact that most women usually are triggered by things other than a guy’s appearance.

Think about it…

There are a bunch more average men walking by with beautiful women than there are average women walking around with good looking guys.

It’s plain and simple…

Women’s attraction comes from the qualities men possess… because they are attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL more than they are by the way a man looks.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction for you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

This is not an accident though. You have to spend time LEARNING how to do this.

Here’s the GOOD NEWS…

ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking It’s All About Money And Looks

One of the most common assumptions and mistakes a guy makes is disqualifying certain women from the start… simply because they think they have to be rich or handsome to get that kind of woman.

Sure, some women care only about these things.

However, far more women are looking for a man’s personality rather than the Tom Cruise looks or wallet.

Certain personality traits attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn exactly which ones and how to put them into practice…oh, the places YOU will go.

YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

I stated before that it is a crucial mistake to ask a woman for permission or approval.

Well, another thing guys commonly do is GIVE AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Let me be clear by saying this another way, guys do whatever the woman wants in order to try and get her to like him.

Awful idea.

NEWS FLASH… Women aren’t attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Ok, let me completely shock you…

A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better at reading your body language than is a man. That’s ten TIMES.

BS, you say…. Let me explain… if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

So, if you have no clue what to do and you screw it up, you’re out of luck. She’s not going to help you out!

This is true for ALL things related to women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don’t know how to handle each situation, you will most likely make a major faux paux… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And the worst part is, you know it’s true.

Therefore, it is extremely critical to your mission to understand how to take each step along the way with a woman…from the first kiss down the hall to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

Here’s the GRANDDADDY of them all.

This is the single biggest mistake that keeps men from ever achieving success with the women that truly interest them.

I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don’t like to ask for help.

Hey, I’ve been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women…

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn’t know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn’t get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night… right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I’ve dated models, I’ve dated actresses, and I’ve dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling… like I don’t know how to meet women… and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I’ve written a book on the topic, and I’ve done seminars on both coasts of the United States… and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

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Well, that’s not the case.

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Your Friend,

David DeAngelo

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